tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3969377097750640088.post4425126939106514791..comments2023-08-05T09:48:26.267-07:00Comments on Through An Al-Anon Filter: People-PleasingUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3969377097750640088.post-13524195919110525212009-08-16T21:25:42.185-07:002009-08-16T21:25:42.185-07:00Cheryl,
I agree with you on this issue, thinking ...Cheryl, <br />I agree with you on this issue, thinking about it tonight I realize that I am no longer working due to being put on permanent disability from work, so my self worth is really low right now, and I have continual nerve related pain so I hardly ever feel good, and I realize that I am doing this, wanting that approval and validation what I refer to in meetings as "feel good" which is one of my addictions. I needed this tonight. Thank You. <br />LoriAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3969377097750640088.post-73661977682395676322009-03-29T23:18:00.000-07:002009-03-29T23:18:00.000-07:00Ah, Syd, I admire your strength of character with ...Ah, Syd, I admire your strength of character with that - I have wimpish tendencies, I fear. That, and my early indoctrination in being female - always put others first, go along to get along, be nice...all that info poured into one's head during the formative years becomes second nature, and difficult to eradicate. But I'm working on it.TAAAFhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03607602088454891329noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3969377097750640088.post-66062199841420796952009-03-29T18:51:00.000-07:002009-03-29T18:51:00.000-07:00I would just politely say No Thank You. And then j...I would just politely say No Thank You. And then just place my own order. I don't feel any obligation to eat the food of someone else, or have them make decisions for me. In fact, it's downright rude for anyone to do that to another. No is a sentence.Sydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05642843245634635843noreply@blogger.com