tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3969377097750640088.post1153184655491210886..comments2023-08-05T09:48:26.267-07:00Comments on Through An Al-Anon Filter: When They're Bent On Self-Destruction.Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3969377097750640088.post-72858462828237629072010-03-17T04:21:45.310-07:002010-03-17T04:21:45.310-07:00I like to say to my myself--it doesn't have my...I like to say to my myself--it doesn't have my name on it, so I don't pick it up. Great reminder to me to mind my own business and tend to what I need to do.Sydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05642843245634635843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3969377097750640088.post-50896943236547778582010-03-15T23:19:06.979-07:002010-03-15T23:19:06.979-07:00I had that need to be with someone and have been w...I had that need to be with someone and have been with some interesting specimens that set off alarm bells in my friends, but somehow missed setting off mine. I was about to work on this with my therapist when my wife walked into my life. No alarm bells anywhere and we are very well suited for each other.<br /><br />Not sure why the relationship dependency, though I have a few theories. And I may never get to the bottom of it now that I'm happily married.<br /><br />My friends let me figure out my own path and though I would've loved for someone to tell me certain ex's were psycho, I needed to learn the lessons from each and every one of them in order to be ready to be happily married.Sarah Laurensonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09252565450452195395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3969377097750640088.post-9244369120331765032010-03-15T10:23:10.503-07:002010-03-15T10:23:10.503-07:00I had a lesson is minding my own business this wee...I had a lesson is minding my own business this weekend. It gets easier each time. I also have those signals I get when I am around people who are not as they appear to be. I listen to those signals now. It is scary how strong they can be sometimes. Yep..I'll keep on my side of the street today!<br /><br />Have a glorious Monday!<br /><br />♥namaste♥Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16128247878961221421noreply@blogger.com