tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3969377097750640088.post5730528359894502041..comments2023-08-05T09:48:26.267-07:00Comments on Through An Al-Anon Filter: Clear, Healthy Thinking.Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3969377097750640088.post-91474407681040017052011-09-13T18:14:55.838-07:002011-09-13T18:14:55.838-07:00My fill in the blank______Controled by anothers em...My fill in the blank______Controled by anothers emotional outburst or actions, because in the past my focus turned on making them happy. I was controled. Better to detach and not be a fly in the spider's web. The outcome often was a loss for me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3969377097750640088.post-80638835598827218022011-08-25T22:27:46.139-07:002011-08-25T22:27:46.139-07:00Keeping the focus on myself allows me to grow more...Keeping the focus on myself allows me to grow more when I stop policing others.<br />Being patient with were I am helps to accept others where they are in their lives.Di-Githttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10770400058372063740noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3969377097750640088.post-18394689147504702172011-08-23T08:13:43.950-07:002011-08-23T08:13:43.950-07:00That is the "trick" for me--to inventory...That is the "trick" for me--to inventory what I am feeling and not simply react. If I can pause, when agitated, then I have clear thinking. The pausing at times is the difficult part!Sydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05642843245634635843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3969377097750640088.post-22673938500759838062011-08-21T21:32:08.886-07:002011-08-21T21:32:08.886-07:00Thank you for sharing! I found your site through M...Thank you for sharing! I found your site through Marcia's site. I really enjoyed this reading today. For me if I don't find that healthy clear thinking... I will be angry.Simply Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06966845919690118072noreply@blogger.com