tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3969377097750640088.post3749471857842412375..comments2023-08-05T09:48:26.267-07:00Comments on Through An Al-Anon Filter: People Pleasing and HonestyUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3969377097750640088.post-13768869671683524692013-03-14T08:34:18.597-07:002013-03-14T08:34:18.597-07:00Glad that you are free of the bondage. It is so lo...Glad that you are free of the bondage. It is so lonely when the other person thinks only of themselves.Sydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05642843245634635843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3969377097750640088.post-84614957460060818262013-03-07T14:26:48.877-08:002013-03-07T14:26:48.877-08:00When my husband divorced me I couldn't let go ...When my husband divorced me I couldn't let go because I felt I was a failure. I had to keep the dream alive and I held out hope up until he married someone else. I couldn't believe I failed my stubbornness has hurt me throughout my life but it has also kept me going.<br /><br />I realized that my real problem was that I needed proof that I was lovable and if I could keep the marriage together it showed I was lovable. Somebody loved me. If I couldn't I wasn't. <br /><br />I had to love myself regardless of whether anyone on this earth loved me. I couldn't wait until I was perfect I had to love myself warts and all. I feel free now even though I failed in many relationships since. We do the best we can at the time and that is all we can do. Grace-WorkinProgresshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16386539822343069884noreply@blogger.com