tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3969377097750640088.post1356230644561220817..comments2023-08-05T09:48:26.267-07:00Comments on Through An Al-Anon Filter: Disagreeable and Lonesome.Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3969377097750640088.post-66895011146136994662011-07-19T18:34:55.367-07:002011-07-19T18:34:55.367-07:00I have a choice. Not something i felt at one time ...I have a choice. Not something i felt at one time now I tell myself I have a choice to remove myself from negativity. <br />Love is a choice, <br />my job is a choice <br />where and what I apply volunteering energy to is a choice <br />friends are a choiceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3969377097750640088.post-69469390164825111842011-05-31T06:32:12.419-07:002011-05-31T06:32:12.419-07:00Hanging on long enough to regain respect and love ...Hanging on long enough to regain respect and love takes a lot of work and much work in program about forgiving myself and having compassion for others. I still have moments when I want to play the old blame game. I realize how devastating that is to both of us.Sydhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05642843245634635843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3969377097750640088.post-47307121700071452852011-05-31T00:16:30.203-07:002011-05-31T00:16:30.203-07:00I discovered in Alanon to open up again to feeling...I discovered in Alanon to open up again to feelings that had been shut up and hidden.<br />So gently they are emerging always ready to retreat behind self pity, disappointments and a victim attitude.<br />With the help of the program my character defects are examined and massaged with love and compassion.Di-Githttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10770400058372063740noreply@blogger.com